How do I prepare for a coaching session to get the most value?

woman in black and white long sleeve shirt reading book
woman in black and white long sleeve shirt reading book

Short Answer:
Bring a current challenge, a reflective mindset, and openness to stretch beyond your usual way of thinking.

Full Answer:
Coaching is co-created—so how you show up matters. Before each session:

  • Reflect: What’s top of mind or emotionally charged?
  • Ask: What outcome would make this session valuable?
  • Bring: Wins, patterns, or tension points from recent experience
  • Be willing to pause and listen to yourself

A senior leader once said, “The sessions I prepared for changed me. The ones I didn’t… reminded me why I need coaching.”

Here are 5 reflection questions to prepare you powerfully:

  1. What progress or small wins have I made since my last session—even if they felt minor at the time?
  2. What’s feeling unclear, heavy, or unresolved right now that I’d like support with?
  3. If I could walk away with one breakthrough or shift today—what would it be?
  4. Why is this moment in my growth important? What’s at stake or possible?
  5. How do I want my coach to support me—listening, strategizing, challenging, or cheerleading?

📝 Take 10 minutes to jot down your answers before your next coaching session. You’ll be amazed how much clarity you gain before you even say a word.

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